Leaving an abusive partner takes real courage, especially when you need to make sure your kids have a secure financial future. While California courts use a standard calculator to figure out basic child support, domestic violence can drastically shift the numbers...
Domestic Violence
Different types of domestic violence in California
Domestic violence and abuse can take many different forms in California. Often, it means that a person is accused of recklessly or intentionally causing bodily injury. They could also be accused of simply threatening to cause bodily injury. If a person has a...
Potential evidence in domestic violence cases
Domestic violence can play a major role in both potential criminal charges and divorce cases. Someone who has an abusive spouse may be looking to end the marriage. They may also want to know what options they have to obtain an order of protection and take other legal...
Why domestically abused spouses take so long to file for divorce
Leaving an abusive relationship is rarely as simple as walking away. While friends or family might urge an abused spouse to “just leave,” the decision to file for divorce is often a long, complicated journey. Survivors of domestic abuse frequently wrestle with...
How do you prove domestic violence in a divorce?
Domestic violence comes in many forms - physical, emotional, verbal or even financial - and it often doesn’t leave visible scars. If you’re in an abusive marriage, proving the abuse during your divorce is crucial to securing your safety and ensuring a fair outcome....
6 things to consider before leaving an abusive relationship
Leaving an abusive relationship is a challenging and courageous decision. Planning carefully and considering several factors to ensure safety and well-being is essential. Here are six important considerations for anyone preparing to leave an abusive situation. 1....
Financial abuse: How it affects your divorce
Financial abuse is a type of domestic violence that can cause significant problems during a marriage. The Family Code in California classifies financial abuse as a form of coercive control, which can significantly affect divorce cases. Understanding financial abuse...
How a domestic violence restraining order can affect a divorce
People who have experienced domestic violence are often anxious about leaving their abusers. Spouses of those who become volatile and aggressive may worry that attempting to leave could result in an escalation of abuse. That fear has a foundation in statistical...
Leaving the marriage when you think you cannot afford it
An unfortunate situation that we see all too often. The marriage has broken down, and one of the spouses, let’s assume in this case, the wife, wants to leave the marriage because her husband is abusing her. Still, she cannot afford to divorce him. This is a couple who...
Asking for a restraining order to protect children
Parents who have left a marriage where domestic violence was involved may be concerned for the safety of their children. If a child’s safety is threatened, parents should immediately inform the authorities. In some cases, California parents can also file for a...

