Why include a relocation clause in your parenting agreement?

A parenting agreement is a crucial document in child custody negotiations. It covers everything from child support to day-to-day parenting duties, creating clarity and structure for your child. If you or the other parent have plans to move to another state or country, a relocation clause can help ensure that both of you are on the same page.

What is a relocation clause?

A relocation clause outlines the process and criteria when a parent moves out of state or internationally while sharing custody. It might include details such as:

  • A notice requirement: When a parent plans to move, they must give the other parent enough advance notice. This allows time for discussion and adjustments to the custody arrangement. The relocating parent might also need to prove that the move is necessary and made in good faith.
  • Specific provisions for the relocating parent: If the child is young or unable to travel internationally, the relocating parent may need to come back periodically (e.g., one weekend a month or every few months) to stay in touch with the child.
  • Modification processes: This clause can outline steps for changing the parenting plan due to a move. It might involve proposing new visitation schedules to maintain the child’s bond with the non-relocating parent or, in some cases, mediation or court proceedings.

When a court approves a parenting agreement, it becomes a legally binding contract. Relocation clauses reduce conflicts and misunderstandings between parents by providing clear guidelines. They also offer protection, ensuring that any relocation is done legally and with proper notice.

Healthy co-parenting is possible across borders

Conflict is difficult to avoid after a separation, but it is still possible to understand and accommodate each other’s expectations when raising your child. Being proactive in your parental agreement now can ensure that your child enjoys a stable home environment in the future, even when it’s in another state or country.